
I just heard one of the most important messages ever made by Andy Stanley.
He did a one part sermon on gratitude called “I. O. Who?”
Andy discussed how important gratitude really is in our relationships with God and with others. He made the simple but effective point that “Unexpressed gratitude is ingratitude”. So many people, including myself, are very grateful towards someone, yet they tell everyone they know except for that person. It doesn’t matter if you tell everyone, if you don’t tell that person. Because that person sees that as rejection.
To refuse to pay my debts of gratitude is to live with an inflated view of myself.
By refusing to show your gratitude to those who have served you is to say that what they did was expected and shouldn’t be thanked.
Gratitude closes the loop in our relationship with God and others.
Andy used the great example of a mother reminding her child to say thank you. That thank you closes the loop. Without an expression of gratitude, that person feels rejected.
This is something that I need to embrace and live out. Expressing gratitude to everyone who has helped me. I need to be a returner.
A returner is someone who is willing to go back to those who enabled them to go forward.
The first thing that really hit me when I heard this message from andy was that I am rejecting God. I take my forgiveness and I run. I am ungrateful to Him.
That hit me. I am rejecting the only One who can save me. I have rejected He who died on the cross for me. I need to accept his gift of forgiveness with more gratitude than ever before.
For He died to save me.
How humbling.
-Travis Fish
Check out the full message Here.


